"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eye contact - just wondering

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johnmich

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If you are looking at a girl, and you want to make eye contact, and she then looks at you and sees you looking at her.

If she doesnt know you, isnt there a chance she thinks you are creepy and staring at her?

i got this feeling from someone the other day and just wondered.

Its probably jus me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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exactly -

you got to smile as soon as the eye contact has been made. If you wait a moment to long it will look creepy
 
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ah, thast probably it, i forget to do it as im not always concentrating
 
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Usually a quick up-and-down raise of the eyebrows when you do the initial start of the smile helps smooth it over, and if she likes you generate interest, therefore stimulating attraction.
 
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