"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eye contact - just wondering

johnmich

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If you are looking at a girl, and you want to make eye contact, and she then looks at you and sees you looking at her.

If she doesnt know you, isnt there a chance she thinks you are creepy and staring at her?

i got this feeling from someone the other day and just wondered.

Its probably jus me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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exactly -

you got to smile as soon as the eye contact has been made. If you wait a moment to long it will look creepy
 

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ah, thast probably it, i forget to do it as im not always concentrating
 

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Usually a quick up-and-down raise of the eyebrows when you do the initial start of the smile helps smooth it over, and if she likes you generate interest, therefore stimulating attraction.
 
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