"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Eye Contact and Name Question

WonderfulWorld

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I have a question about eye contact with strangers.


When I am walking around on campus or in a store, what is the best way to make eye contact with people? I usually avoid eye contact, but I think that is communicating insecurity.

Also, how to you move to familiarity (first name) with people that work at stores or shops or the like that you see a lot? Should I just start calling them by their name?
 

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Ridingthelightning

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Eye contact is easy. Just look in someone's eyes.
I've found that I'm usually deep in thought when I walk around on campus and my brow is somewhat furrowed a lot. So if I look at a girl I think is pretty I do that natural extra lengthy look at her, but I've needed to stop the furrowed brow. So what I'm saying is don't have a furrowed brow.
Don't have a sh!t eating grin either.
 
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