Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

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Eye Contact and Name Question

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WonderfulWorld

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I have a question about eye contact with strangers.


When I am walking around on campus or in a store, what is the best way to make eye contact with people? I usually avoid eye contact, but I think that is communicating insecurity.

Also, how to you move to familiarity (first name) with people that work at stores or shops or the like that you see a lot? Should I just start calling them by their name?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ridingthelightning

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Eye contact is easy. Just look in someone's eyes.
I've found that I'm usually deep in thought when I walk around on campus and my brow is somewhat furrowed a lot. So if I look at a girl I think is pretty I do that natural extra lengthy look at her, but I've needed to stop the furrowed brow. So what I'm saying is don't have a furrowed brow.
Don't have a sh!t eating grin either.
 
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