"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eye Contact and Name Question

WonderfulWorld

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I have a question about eye contact with strangers.


When I am walking around on campus or in a store, what is the best way to make eye contact with people? I usually avoid eye contact, but I think that is communicating insecurity.

Also, how to you move to familiarity (first name) with people that work at stores or shops or the like that you see a lot? Should I just start calling them by their name?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ridingthelightning

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Eye contact is easy. Just look in someone's eyes.
I've found that I'm usually deep in thought when I walk around on campus and my brow is somewhat furrowed a lot. So if I look at a girl I think is pretty I do that natural extra lengthy look at her, but I've needed to stop the furrowed brow. So what I'm saying is don't have a furrowed brow.
Don't have a sh!t eating grin either.
 
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