Extreme mood shifts

[My Name is Nobody]

good advice, but only if you're sure that you're not already smothering her

True. So what it is OP are you being clingy? If you are being clingy that's a big no no.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Real talk.

If a woman you are with ever disrespects you, she should be gone until she EARNS you back.

Ofcourse most of us are not like Francisco and have no other women around so we try and find ways to keep the same one even though that is AFC behavior.

I will admit it's not a big deal when you have fallbacks. I will admit it took me a moment (just a moment) to get comfortable with the fact that she will probably have to start over at square one once she gets her head straight, she had been doing really well in proving her worth.

But Like you said, if she disrespects you she needs to earn your respect again. This one did, apologized the very next day and said she was going to get counseling. That may be the only reason that she still has a chance with me, even if it's slight. Not to many woman would admit to being flawed and seek out professional help in hopes to build some type of relationship after she heals herself.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I will admit it's not a big deal when you have fallbacks. I will admit it took me a moment (just a moment) to get comfortable with the fact that she will probably have to start over at square one once she gets her head straight, she had been doing really well in proving her worth.

But Like you said, if she disrespects you she needs to earn your respect again. This one did, apologized the very next day and said she was going to get counseling. That may be the only reason that she still has a chance with me, even if it's slight. Not to many woman would admit to being flawed and seek out professional help in hopes to build some type of relationship after she heals herself.

Nice. Apologized the next day.

I'm still waiting for apologies from quite a few women. I'm sure they will come any day now

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Nice. Apologized the next day.

I'm still waiting for apologies from quite a few women. I'm sure they will come any day now

Oh yeah, and I bet you'll be sitting by the phone waiting..

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

its possible that she could just be a total basket case

either way, grab your balls from her purse and run

 

[penkitten]

i blame pms!! buy stock in midol.

 

[godofanxiety]

Ha, no it's not pms, and guys please forget personality disorders, she's a relatively normal girl. I think I may have been clingy, as well as not very interesting for a while, so I'm gonna give her some time. Should I wait for her to call first or not?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Real talk.

If a woman you are with ever disrespects you, she should be gone until she EARNS you back.

Ofcourse most of us are not like Francisco and have no other women around so we try and find ways to keep the same one even though that is AFC behavior.

By the way, three weeks after the start of the hiatus I get another apology email asking what she can do to get back into my good graces. She also listed the things that she had done to settle herself (including getting professional help). It's things like this that allows me to keep her on the roster even though she's lost a couple of spots on the rotation. Not all women with issues are completely worth writing off.