"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Extreme Desparation Please Help

calikid101

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Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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base2ball2boy2

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1. Take a deep breath.
2. Go get a glass of water.

Relaxed?

Okay.

My advice is to stop caring! Slow yourself down, take in the current situation a little bit. Sometimes you can miss a lot of IOI's from girls. And since you're a three sport athlete and popular, I'm sure you've got some feminine fans.

If (in the rare chance) nobody likes you, then use the DJ bible to build attraction in a girl.

And if you don't get someone at first, then try again! That's the beauty of this game, there's no "Game Over."
 

eaglez1177

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1. Read the bible
2. MAKE AN EFFORT TO IMPROVE, dont just be all negative and feeling sorry for yourself.
3. Change your fvcking attitude man
4. Stop trying to fit in and worrying about everyone else, be your own man
 

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Girls are like business ideas - apples will just sometimes fall from the tree and smack you on the head when you least expect it. So stop assuming you should go out and "game" one and you should be fine.
 

It's-Me

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calikid101 said:
Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
Kind of in the same boat bro.

I've hooked up with say 20 girls and I got one fvck-close, but still not happy.

I think it's cause I'm looking for something more. I don't know a cool girl who I can just relax with and be myself and not have to worry about anything? I think the problem is we're too much in our heads, we think too much, plan everything out instead of letting things be natural.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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