“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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calikid101

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Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1. Take a deep breath.
2. Go get a glass of water.

Relaxed?

Okay.

My advice is to stop caring! Slow yourself down, take in the current situation a little bit. Sometimes you can miss a lot of IOI's from girls. And since you're a three sport athlete and popular, I'm sure you've got some feminine fans.

If (in the rare chance) nobody likes you, then use the DJ bible to build attraction in a girl.

And if you don't get someone at first, then try again! That's the beauty of this game, there's no "Game Over."
 

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1. Read the bible
2. MAKE AN EFFORT TO IMPROVE, dont just be all negative and feeling sorry for yourself.
3. Change your fvcking attitude man
4. Stop trying to fit in and worrying about everyone else, be your own man
 

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Girls are like business ideas - apples will just sometimes fall from the tree and smack you on the head when you least expect it. So stop assuming you should go out and "game" one and you should be fine.
 

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calikid101 said:
Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
Kind of in the same boat bro.

I've hooked up with say 20 girls and I got one fvck-close, but still not happy.

I think it's cause I'm looking for something more. I don't know a cool girl who I can just relax with and be myself and not have to worry about anything? I think the problem is we're too much in our heads, we think too much, plan everything out instead of letting things be natural.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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