Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Extreme Desparation Please Help

calikid101

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Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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base2ball2boy2

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1. Take a deep breath.
2. Go get a glass of water.

Relaxed?

Okay.

My advice is to stop caring! Slow yourself down, take in the current situation a little bit. Sometimes you can miss a lot of IOI's from girls. And since you're a three sport athlete and popular, I'm sure you've got some feminine fans.

If (in the rare chance) nobody likes you, then use the DJ bible to build attraction in a girl.

And if you don't get someone at first, then try again! That's the beauty of this game, there's no "Game Over."
 

eaglez1177

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1. Read the bible
2. MAKE AN EFFORT TO IMPROVE, dont just be all negative and feeling sorry for yourself.
3. Change your fvcking attitude man
4. Stop trying to fit in and worrying about everyone else, be your own man
 

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Girls are like business ideas - apples will just sometimes fall from the tree and smack you on the head when you least expect it. So stop assuming you should go out and "game" one and you should be fine.
 

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calikid101 said:
Another girl gets away....

Guys I honestly don't know what to do anymore I entered the game 4 years ago when I was 13 and I have only had 3 K-Closes 0 GF. I think learning about this stuff has harmed me but nothing I can do about it now. I am a popular kid have a lot of friends play 3 varsity sports, but have no luck with women. Everyone around just picks the girl they want goes after her and gets her. That never happens to me. I've read over 30 books on this stuff no luck. I always come off as a jerk or quiet, or weird,goof. I always get out gamed by somebody. I don't even want to hang out with friends anymore because I see all them happy and gaming women and with their GF's.
Please guys can someone help me I don't know what to do anymore.
Kind of in the same boat bro.

I've hooked up with say 20 girls and I got one fvck-close, but still not happy.

I think it's cause I'm looking for something more. I don't know a cool girl who I can just relax with and be myself and not have to worry about anything? I think the problem is we're too much in our heads, we think too much, plan everything out instead of letting things be natural.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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