"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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external confidence vs internal confidence

steve_erkle

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So i've come out of my shell a little and now more people like me, i have more fun socially, and girls are starting to want me. this is giving me some confidence. However, i don't think i should be becoming confident because people like me or whatever. I think i should be confidence internally, but i have no ****ing clue how to do that. Any suggestions? Or am I wrong, and my confidence should be coming from the things i said?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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reachinside

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its like a cycle man

confidence only can come from within.. your projecting that onto other people and it is the problem. Or you are getting ****y which are 2 different things.

dont mess confidence for arroagance or ****y
 

steve_erkle

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reachinside said:
its like a cycle man

confidence only can come from within.. your projecting that onto other people and it is the problem. Or you are getting ****y which are 2 different things.

dont mess confidence for arroagance or ****y

so its alright if my confidence is coming from my social successes?
 

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Your confidence should come from within man, social success is just a reward, not the real thing.
 

steve_erkle

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Daniel1982 said:
Your confidence should come from within man, social success is just a reward, not the real thing.
alright.. i dont get how to get this confidence though. Like, i feel a lot more confident socially because i have been approaching strangers and improving my social skills. is that internal confidence?
 

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Keep improving your social skills. Also try to practice some sport, or going to the gym, hang out with friends, do some new stuff. The thing is, to enrich you life with experiences.
 

steve_erkle

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Daniel1982 said:
Keep improving your social skills. Also try to practice some sport, or going to the gym, hang out with friends, do some new stuff. The thing is, to enrich you life with experiences.
alright, i think i getcha. the more things you experience the more confident you will become. Someone who goes out and drives a car all day is going to be more confident behind the wheel then somebody who just got their liscense. Is that kind of what you're saying?
 
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