“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ex's Birthday

Aesthetix29

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It's my ex's birthday on Saturday, would you wish her happy birthday or just leave it?
 

Slash Dolo

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in person? no

on Facebook/Instagram/whatever? sure, but don't make anything of it
 

Spinach

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Let me tell you what will happen if you break no contact and wish her happy cake day...you will find out she is f***ing some other dude and will feel like crap all over again. Don't ask me how I know this.....
 

Aesthetix29

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Okay I won't send anything, and I believe she has already replaced me going off what I've heard. My biggest mistake was blocking her then unblocking her once I realised this makes me look weak! As she noticed and mentioned it too a friend... By saying that she just didn't want too be in a relationship ... BS Ha! Either way it's over and I just need to improve myself and my game ... I think that im too much of a nice guy! Already spinning another plate who's a HB 7 and is 21 which is 9 yrs younger... But I still have feelings for this bish as I can't just switch them off, OBVIOUSLY my fault for putting her on a pedestal ! Live and learn!
 

GS750

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Leave it. It will just confirm to her that she is on your mind.
 

Eljuego

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She's dead to you. Let the dead rest, in the past.

You still have feelings for her just represents how much you were attached and dependent on some aspect of her, IMO.

What are you missing in your personality that you admired in her, is a question I would ask myself. Fill those holes.

Your present moments are yours....to spend on you and enjoying that HB7 21 year old!!! Nice, by the way :woo:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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