Aesthetix29
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It's my ex's birthday on Saturday, would you wish her happy birthday or just leave it?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ex's Birthday
- Thread starter Aesthetix29
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Slash Dolo
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in person? no
on Facebook/Instagram/whatever? sure, but don't make anything of it
on Facebook/Instagram/whatever? sure, but don't make anything of it
dk1990S111
Master Don Juan
Hell no
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Aesthetix29
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Okay I won't send anything, and I believe she has already replaced me going off what I've heard. My biggest mistake was blocking her then unblocking her once I realised this makes me look weak! As she noticed and mentioned it too a friend... By saying that she just didn't want too be in a relationship ... BS Ha! Either way it's over and I just need to improve myself and my game ... I think that im too much of a nice guy! Already spinning another plate who's a HB 7 and is 21 which is 9 yrs younger... But I still have feelings for this bish as I can't just switch them off, OBVIOUSLY my fault for putting her on a pedestal ! Live and learn!
She's dead to you. Let the dead rest, in the past.
You still have feelings for her just represents how much you were attached and dependent on some aspect of her, IMO.
What are you missing in your personality that you admired in her, is a question I would ask myself. Fill those holes.
Your present moments are yours....to spend on you and enjoying that HB7 21 year old!!! Nice, by the way :woo:
You still have feelings for her just represents how much you were attached and dependent on some aspect of her, IMO.
What are you missing in your personality that you admired in her, is a question I would ask myself. Fill those holes.
Your present moments are yours....to spend on you and enjoying that HB7 21 year old!!! Nice, by the way :woo:
EveryPostHere
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Don't fvcking do it. NEVER do that on social media either.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.