Aesthetix29
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It's my ex's birthday on Saturday, would you wish her happy birthday or just leave it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ex's Birthday
- Thread starter Aesthetix29
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Slash Dolo
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in person? no
on Facebook/Instagram/whatever? sure, but don't make anything of it
on Facebook/Instagram/whatever? sure, but don't make anything of it
dk1990S111
Master Don Juan
Hell no
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Aesthetix29
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Okay I won't send anything, and I believe she has already replaced me going off what I've heard. My biggest mistake was blocking her then unblocking her once I realised this makes me look weak! As she noticed and mentioned it too a friend... By saying that she just didn't want too be in a relationship ... BS Ha! Either way it's over and I just need to improve myself and my game ... I think that im too much of a nice guy! Already spinning another plate who's a HB 7 and is 21 which is 9 yrs younger... But I still have feelings for this bish as I can't just switch them off, OBVIOUSLY my fault for putting her on a pedestal ! Live and learn!
She's dead to you. Let the dead rest, in the past.
You still have feelings for her just represents how much you were attached and dependent on some aspect of her, IMO.
What are you missing in your personality that you admired in her, is a question I would ask myself. Fill those holes.
Your present moments are yours....to spend on you and enjoying that HB7 21 year old!!! Nice, by the way :woo:
You still have feelings for her just represents how much you were attached and dependent on some aspect of her, IMO.
What are you missing in your personality that you admired in her, is a question I would ask myself. Fill those holes.
Your present moments are yours....to spend on you and enjoying that HB7 21 year old!!! Nice, by the way :woo:
EveryPostHere
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Don't fvcking do it. NEVER do that on social media either.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.