"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Explaining "The Secret" ...somewhat

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Alright. For those who aren't really into spiritual literature, wars are created by our collective unconsciousness (of our habits, emotions, behaviors etc.).

Our mind is in control, and it is greedy, paranoid, and many other things. It is the ego (this term can be used many ways so take it lightly). Most of us run on automatic being controlled by and unaware of our thought processes which create our reality.

We as individuals do have complete control of our reality, but only if we have complete control of our thoughts, which include our built-up collection of past thoughts (mostly negative). This is why our emotions seem to control us and emotions become labeled as "this anger", or "this depression".

Just honestly want to know the answers, feel it in your heart, and they will come (works for me, dunno about you). Try to find out who you really are.


I'm stating this because I had an itch to. I do not really want to discuss it, I just hoped it might clarify some things for some people. Buh-Bye.

Oh, and I could be completely wrong, so take it as it is, text on a screen.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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