"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Explaining "The Secret" ...somewhat

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Alright. For those who aren't really into spiritual literature, wars are created by our collective unconsciousness (of our habits, emotions, behaviors etc.).

Our mind is in control, and it is greedy, paranoid, and many other things. It is the ego (this term can be used many ways so take it lightly). Most of us run on automatic being controlled by and unaware of our thought processes which create our reality.

We as individuals do have complete control of our reality, but only if we have complete control of our thoughts, which include our built-up collection of past thoughts (mostly negative). This is why our emotions seem to control us and emotions become labeled as "this anger", or "this depression".

Just honestly want to know the answers, feel it in your heart, and they will come (works for me, dunno about you). Try to find out who you really are.


I'm stating this because I had an itch to. I do not really want to discuss it, I just hoped it might clarify some things for some people. Buh-Bye.

Oh, and I could be completely wrong, so take it as it is, text on a screen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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