Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Explaining "The Secret" ...somewhat

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Alright. For those who aren't really into spiritual literature, wars are created by our collective unconsciousness (of our habits, emotions, behaviors etc.).

Our mind is in control, and it is greedy, paranoid, and many other things. It is the ego (this term can be used many ways so take it lightly). Most of us run on automatic being controlled by and unaware of our thought processes which create our reality.

We as individuals do have complete control of our reality, but only if we have complete control of our thoughts, which include our built-up collection of past thoughts (mostly negative). This is why our emotions seem to control us and emotions become labeled as "this anger", or "this depression".

Just honestly want to know the answers, feel it in your heart, and they will come (works for me, dunno about you). Try to find out who you really are.


I'm stating this because I had an itch to. I do not really want to discuss it, I just hoped it might clarify some things for some people. Buh-Bye.

Oh, and I could be completely wrong, so take it as it is, text on a screen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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