“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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explain to me why no means yes in women language

SeymourCake

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I'm unclear why this is so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Subcommunication. You basically are inferring the yes by evidence that is contrary to the no, i.e. Subtle body language, or non-verbal behavioural cues, and other responses that you can test and challenge. You can read a woman at times by how she is overtly is saying one thing while covertly showing another.
 

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Some times women say the opposite of what they actually mean. Some times they dont.

Women lie a lot. Its up to you to learn the skill of figuring it out.

For example, if you think they are mad, and ask them "are you mad?" usually they will say "no, I'm fine" but really its a lie.
 

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It's one reason women complain about nice guys, because they don't challenge them on what they say - they find a guy attractive and arousing who can change their mind.
 

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explain the context you are referring too. No means yes in a sexual context is for different reasons than no meaning yes when you ask if she is mad.

One of the first DJ expressions I remember hearing (back in my blue pill days) was

"no means yes, and yes means anal"
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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David Deida's, Way of the Superior Man, may offer some of the clarity you seek, if you haven't yet read it.
 

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So you can chase her hard, so she can get you to loose your frame, so she can be the dominant one in the relationship who has all the power. Fück those double-talk games, who's got time for that bullshıt?
 

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It all depends on the underlying communication. I can go to a bar and say "No, no NO!" and push a girl away from me (playfully, damn it) and have her come back to me for a kiss.

In short, it's the difference between surface level/superficial communication vs. the underlying communication.
 

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The other night my GF had a tough day at work and was crying on the phone.
I told her I was coming straight over but she insisted that she was fine and she didn't want me to come.
I ignored her and rocked up anyway with her favourite cake and now all week it's been "I love you", "I'm so glad you came over", "You're my soulmate" etc.
It must be some fvcked up chick logic.
 
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