SeymourCake
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I'm unclear why this is so.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
explain to me why no means yes in women language
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Subcommunication. You basically are inferring the yes by evidence that is contrary to the no, i.e. Subtle body language, or non-verbal behavioural cues, and other responses that you can test and challenge. You can read a woman at times by how she is overtly is saying one thing while covertly showing another.
VikingKing
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Some times women say the opposite of what they actually mean. Some times they dont.
Women lie a lot. Its up to you to learn the skill of figuring it out.
For example, if you think they are mad, and ask them "are you mad?" usually they will say "no, I'm fine" but really its a lie.
Women lie a lot. Its up to you to learn the skill of figuring it out.
For example, if you think they are mad, and ask them "are you mad?" usually they will say "no, I'm fine" but really its a lie.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
It's one reason women complain about nice guys, because they don't challenge them on what they say - they find a guy attractive and arousing who can change their mind.
explain the context you are referring too. No means yes in a sexual context is for different reasons than no meaning yes when you ask if she is mad.
One of the first DJ expressions I remember hearing (back in my blue pill days) was
"no means yes, and yes means anal"
One of the first DJ expressions I remember hearing (back in my blue pill days) was
"no means yes, and yes means anal"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
David Deida's, Way of the Superior Man, may offer some of the clarity you seek, if you haven't yet read it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
So you can chase her hard, so she can get you to loose your frame, so she can be the dominant one in the relationship who has all the power. Fück those double-talk games, who's got time for that bullshıt?
Vice
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It all depends on the underlying communication. I can go to a bar and say "No, no NO!" and push a girl away from me (playfully, damn it) and have her come back to me for a kiss.
In short, it's the difference between surface level/superficial communication vs. the underlying communication.
In short, it's the difference between surface level/superficial communication vs. the underlying communication.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
The other night my GF had a tough day at work and was crying on the phone.
I told her I was coming straight over but she insisted that she was fine and she didn't want me to come.
I ignored her and rocked up anyway with her favourite cake and now all week it's been "I love you", "I'm so glad you came over", "You're my soulmate" etc.
It must be some fvcked up chick logic.
I told her I was coming straight over but she insisted that she was fine and she didn't want me to come.
I ignored her and rocked up anyway with her favourite cake and now all week it's been "I love you", "I'm so glad you came over", "You're my soulmate" etc.
It must be some fvcked up chick logic.