SeymourCake
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I'm unclear why this is so.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
explain to me why no means yes in women language
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Subcommunication. You basically are inferring the yes by evidence that is contrary to the no, i.e. Subtle body language, or non-verbal behavioural cues, and other responses that you can test and challenge. You can read a woman at times by how she is overtly is saying one thing while covertly showing another.
VikingKing
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Some times women say the opposite of what they actually mean. Some times they dont.
Women lie a lot. Its up to you to learn the skill of figuring it out.
For example, if you think they are mad, and ask them "are you mad?" usually they will say "no, I'm fine" but really its a lie.
Women lie a lot. Its up to you to learn the skill of figuring it out.
For example, if you think they are mad, and ask them "are you mad?" usually they will say "no, I'm fine" but really its a lie.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
It's one reason women complain about nice guys, because they don't challenge them on what they say - they find a guy attractive and arousing who can change their mind.
explain the context you are referring too. No means yes in a sexual context is for different reasons than no meaning yes when you ask if she is mad.
One of the first DJ expressions I remember hearing (back in my blue pill days) was
"no means yes, and yes means anal"
One of the first DJ expressions I remember hearing (back in my blue pill days) was
"no means yes, and yes means anal"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
David Deida's, Way of the Superior Man, may offer some of the clarity you seek, if you haven't yet read it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
So you can chase her hard, so she can get you to loose your frame, so she can be the dominant one in the relationship who has all the power. Fück those double-talk games, who's got time for that bullshıt?
Vice
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It all depends on the underlying communication. I can go to a bar and say "No, no NO!" and push a girl away from me (playfully, damn it) and have her come back to me for a kiss.
In short, it's the difference between surface level/superficial communication vs. the underlying communication.
In short, it's the difference between surface level/superficial communication vs. the underlying communication.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
The other night my GF had a tough day at work and was crying on the phone.
I told her I was coming straight over but she insisted that she was fine and she didn't want me to come.
I ignored her and rocked up anyway with her favourite cake and now all week it's been "I love you", "I'm so glad you came over", "You're my soulmate" etc.
It must be some fvcked up chick logic.
I told her I was coming straight over but she insisted that she was fine and she didn't want me to come.
I ignored her and rocked up anyway with her favourite cake and now all week it's been "I love you", "I'm so glad you came over", "You're my soulmate" etc.
It must be some fvcked up chick logic.