"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Explain to me this nonsense

Walk this Way

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Let's consider for a moment one of my best friends - a female. Attractive, still young, a little immature, etc. etc. We talk about everything together, literally EVERYTHING. We grew up together. Now, in my mind, I decided I had no chance quite a long time ago and moved on. Since then, this girl has continued to amaze me, because she constantly gets into relationships with what we here at these boards consider AFCs.

The one right now is the worst. First, I have never seen him offline. NEVER. Even my female friend admitted that he has no life so he spends it in front of the computer. He's unathletic, he's small and skinny and still has a few freckles, and he's not very smart. When I see them meet around on campus, he usually says "me loves you" or she'll be like "wanna hear something?" and he'll say "I ALWAYS want to hear what you have to say". He talks to nobody but her. He's a loser. But her justification is that he's SO nice, that he always apologizes for saying something sexual, that he's so sweet and sooo romantic. *I puke*

Now, it's not like she doesn't know what a MAN is. I play tennis, work out, am extremely ambitious and intelligent, am a great dancer, and my tongue is sharp and witty with tons of innuendo and my conversations with her, frankly, are far more interesting than the conversations she has with him. Of course, I expect nothing from her, but she's always telling me that I should "be more romantic and nice" like him, and that she'd rather go out with a romantic guy than a "bad" guy.

She likes him a lot, and is very physical with him, so her actions correspond with her words. In fact at the movies he said "kiss me i'm irish" and they made out. That's like something I would have done five years ago. It BAFFLES me what she could see in him. And it goes against everything I've seen here. And when I tell her he's so incredibly boring and ordinary, she laughs and says I'm jealous and that . My response: OF WHAT?

What do you guys think? Is she an exception? I can't beieve it!
 

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am4591

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I think she likes getting her ass kissed.

So is this guy getting any?
 

DreamerZZ35

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Let's consider for a moment one of my best friends - a female. Attractive, still young, a little immature, etc. etc. We talk about everything together, literally EVERYTHING. We grew up together. Now, in my mind, I decided I had no chance quite a long time ago and moved on. Since then, this girl has continued to amaze me, because she constantly gets into relationships with what we here at these boards consider AFCs.

The one right now is the worst. First, I have never seen him offline. NEVER. Even my female friend admitted that he has no life so he spends it in front of the computer. He's unathletic, he's small and skinny and still has a few freckles, and he's not very smart. When I see them meet around on campus, he usually says "me loves you" or she'll be like "wanna hear something?" and he'll say "I ALWAYS want to hear what you have to say". He talks to nobody but her. He's a loser. But her justification is that he's SO nice, that he always apologizes for saying something sexual, that he's so sweet and sooo romantic. *I puke*

Now, it's not like she doesn't know what a MAN is. I play tennis, work out, am extremely ambitious and intelligent, am a great dancer, and my tongue is sharp and witty with tons of innuendo and my conversations with her, frankly, are far more interesting than the conversations she has with him. Of course, I expect nothing from her, but she's always telling me that I should "be more romantic and nice" like him, and that she'd rather go out with a romantic guy than a "bad" guy.

She likes him a lot, and is very physical with him, so her actions correspond with her words. In fact at the movies he said "kiss me i'm irish" and they made out. That's like something I would have done five years ago. It BAFFLES me what she could see in him. And it goes against everything I've seen here. And when I tell her he's so incredibly boring and ordinary, she laughs and says I'm jealous and that . My response: OF WHAT?

What do you guys think? Is she an exception? I can't beieve it!
Who is bull chitting who here? Men and women are NOT best freinds... one of the two of you has romantic interest. Dont tell me otherwise either. My guess is from reading your words you are the one with the interest. I think you want to fvck this chick and she isnt interested and it pisses you off. I dont care how strong your game is... if you aint her type, your game isnt going to matter squat. Anyone who thinks differently DOESNT GET IT.

Bottom line... you say he is "he's so incredibly boring and ordinary, she laughs and says I'm jealous and that." SHE IS RIGHT.

If she is really just a friend then WHY DO YOU GIVE A RATZ aZZ? You got a bad case of oneitis and SHE KNOWS IT. Why do you care what she sees in him? It doesnt sound like he treats her poorly or abuses her so ITS NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS.
 

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Who is bull chitting who here? Men and women are NOT best freinds... one of the two of you has romantic interest.
Uh...NO
 

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Uh... YES

You want it so bad you can't see straight, and the fact the she is giving you subtle hints like "I prefer nice guys over bad guys" and that "you should be more nice", Idicates she does too. You can have her, but you'l have to change for her. And she knows you want her too, her actions prove that.

NO my /-\ss!
 

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Walk this Way

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I don't want her. I can and have done better than what she can ever offer me. But I want to know why because what appeals to one woman may appeal to them all.

And RabidDog, I was not the one who said "uhhh...NO", that was Porky, but the answer is no, I feel nothing for her. I've known her for over a decade, she's still eight years old in my mind playing with me in the park.
 
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