"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Explain to me this Myspace business

Flabbergasped?

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I don't understand why so many people use it to hook up. I've never been a fan of relating through electronics, so I keep my phone convos, emails, IMs, etc., short and to the point. If I want to see someone, I meet up with them in real life.

Yet, tons of people use myspace to "approach", rather than their two feet. What's the deal?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Skilla_Staz

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Lazy. Easy. Don't have to have guts to send somebody a message over the internet.

Duh.
 

i am me

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most people at my highschool jus use myspace to keep in touch wit their friends and jus so they can hav one cus EVERYONE has one. no one i know uses it for dating
 

Vincent

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Keep this thread to myspace and the use of it to be used as a pickup tool and the negative aspects of it being used to meet people.

Any posts involving your personal myspace page will be deleted.
 

we all eat food

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I used myspace once to meet a girl, she looked really good looking from her pics, but they had pics of her face. So i meet her and shes nasty and ****ing fat. So I say never meet up with a girl from myspace!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dannowillbookem

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i use it to keep up with friends, and every now and then i get numbers/leads off it. its not like i sit around on it instead of going out. it just doesnt take much time so why not.
 
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