"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Explain to me this Myspace business

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Flabbergasped?

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I don't understand why so many people use it to hook up. I've never been a fan of relating through electronics, so I keep my phone convos, emails, IMs, etc., short and to the point. If I want to see someone, I meet up with them in real life.

Yet, tons of people use myspace to "approach", rather than their two feet. What's the deal?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lazy. Easy. Don't have to have guts to send somebody a message over the internet.

Duh.
 
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i am me

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most people at my highschool jus use myspace to keep in touch wit their friends and jus so they can hav one cus EVERYONE has one. no one i know uses it for dating
 
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Keep this thread to myspace and the use of it to be used as a pickup tool and the negative aspects of it being used to meet people.

Any posts involving your personal myspace page will be deleted.
 
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we all eat food

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I used myspace once to meet a girl, she looked really good looking from her pics, but they had pics of her face. So i meet her and shes nasty and ****ing fat. So I say never meet up with a girl from myspace!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i use it to keep up with friends, and every now and then i get numbers/leads off it. its not like i sit around on it instead of going out. it just doesnt take much time so why not.
 
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