"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Exercising = Agressiveness?

yngad

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Hey guys,

I got a personal trainer last summer and started working out alot. I've seen some great improvements ... lost 15 lbs and gained some muscle ... etc but i've noticed i've become more agressive. If someone cuts me off I get pissed off more or if i'm at a bar and some guy runs into me i'll automatically get irritated and give him the wtf look. Is this because of working out or something diff? Anyone experience this?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fred Da Head

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It's called "testosterone." Working out raises your blood levels (slightly) and has some effects, such as slightly elevated aggressiveness.
 

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Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.
 

yngad

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blinkwatt said:
Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.

oh definatly its not but i didn't know it was the reason why
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mjazz

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naw dude, you do get aggressive and you get angry a lot faster. Its a test of self control
 
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