"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Exercising = Agressiveness?

yngad

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Hey guys,

I got a personal trainer last summer and started working out alot. I've seen some great improvements ... lost 15 lbs and gained some muscle ... etc but i've noticed i've become more agressive. If someone cuts me off I get pissed off more or if i'm at a bar and some guy runs into me i'll automatically get irritated and give him the wtf look. Is this because of working out or something diff? Anyone experience this?

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fred Da Head

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It's called "testosterone." Working out raises your blood levels (slightly) and has some effects, such as slightly elevated aggressiveness.
 

blinkwatt

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Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.
 

yngad

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blinkwatt said:
Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.

oh definatly its not but i didn't know it was the reason why
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mjazz

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naw dude, you do get aggressive and you get angry a lot faster. Its a test of self control
 
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