"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Exercising = Agressiveness?

yngad

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Hey guys,

I got a personal trainer last summer and started working out alot. I've seen some great improvements ... lost 15 lbs and gained some muscle ... etc but i've noticed i've become more agressive. If someone cuts me off I get pissed off more or if i'm at a bar and some guy runs into me i'll automatically get irritated and give him the wtf look. Is this because of working out or something diff? Anyone experience this?

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fred Da Head

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It's called "testosterone." Working out raises your blood levels (slightly) and has some effects, such as slightly elevated aggressiveness.
 

blinkwatt

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Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.
 

yngad

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blinkwatt said:
Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.

oh definatly its not but i didn't know it was the reason why
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mjazz

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naw dude, you do get aggressive and you get angry a lot faster. Its a test of self control
 
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