"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Exercising = Agressiveness?

yngad

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Hey guys,

I got a personal trainer last summer and started working out alot. I've seen some great improvements ... lost 15 lbs and gained some muscle ... etc but i've noticed i've become more agressive. If someone cuts me off I get pissed off more or if i'm at a bar and some guy runs into me i'll automatically get irritated and give him the wtf look. Is this because of working out or something diff? Anyone experience this?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fred Da Head

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It's called "testosterone." Working out raises your blood levels (slightly) and has some effects, such as slightly elevated aggressiveness.
 

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Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.
 

yngad

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blinkwatt said:
Don't let 'suggestive selling' get to you. YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS NO ONE ELSE! Some of the most muscular people I know are the most mellow and forgiving people I know because they dont let the 'suggestive selling' get to them. Always keep your cool,don't let your exercising be the reason why 'this or that' occurred.

oh definatly its not but i didn't know it was the reason why
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mjazz

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naw dude, you do get aggressive and you get angry a lot faster. Its a test of self control
 
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