That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
One of my good friends has a degree in exercise science and he is very happy with his degree and what it has allowed him to do in a field he loves. Who the hell do you think you are to talk badly about strangers and judge others accomplishments ???
I never mentioned anything about her liking OR not liking sex, their isn't anything wrong with that. What turned me off is the fact she feels what she is doing is alright and you also have to keep in mind that she was doing the same thing in college. On top of that she is constantly clubbing and partying it up so for me personally I didn't find her destructive lifestyle let alone her destructive behavior too appealing. But again it comes down to your personal choices/standards so if you feel that you wouldn't mind having sloppy 4th's all the power to you because your a better man than I am. Too add to it what ABOUT those guys...? I'm not one of them...? It ain't me so why would it matter to me what those OTHER guys do. I love how you just add things to my post!
One of your good friends huh!!? :crackup: Who talked badly...? That is the TRUTH, it's nothing special where it will open up a lot of doors unlike some of the other Science degrees like Physics or Mathematics. I gave him pertinent information so it would provide some ideas in making a sound decision based on what the expectations are. I'm not looking down or anything because their isn't anything wrong with the degree especially if you like it but I'm assuming that if this person is looking to make lots of money than according to the data he might end up struggling that is why I was saying networking & building contact would be a must.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.