I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
One of my good friends has a degree in exercise science and he is very happy with his degree and what it has allowed him to do in a field he loves. Who the hell do you think you are to talk badly about strangers and judge others accomplishments ???
I never mentioned anything about her liking OR not liking sex, their isn't anything wrong with that. What turned me off is the fact she feels what she is doing is alright and you also have to keep in mind that she was doing the same thing in college. On top of that she is constantly clubbing and partying it up so for me personally I didn't find her destructive lifestyle let alone her destructive behavior too appealing. But again it comes down to your personal choices/standards so if you feel that you wouldn't mind having sloppy 4th's all the power to you because your a better man than I am. Too add to it what ABOUT those guys...? I'm not one of them...? It ain't me so why would it matter to me what those OTHER guys do. I love how you just add things to my post!
One of your good friends huh!!? :crackup: Who talked badly...? That is the TRUTH, it's nothing special where it will open up a lot of doors unlike some of the other Science degrees like Physics or Mathematics. I gave him pertinent information so it would provide some ideas in making a sound decision based on what the expectations are. I'm not looking down or anything because their isn't anything wrong with the degree especially if you like it but I'm assuming that if this person is looking to make lots of money than according to the data he might end up struggling that is why I was saying networking & building contact would be a must.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.