This ***** kept hinting that she wanted to be exclusive. So I thought "hmm, the time is soon." The final draw was when she said "you come off as a player to me." Then later I asked her to become exclusive. I could honestly care less, just as long as shes happy. So I asked her this for her sake and she said "No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule" I was like uhhh... okay.... I could honestly care less because im a dj. Like I said as long as shes happy. I dont know what is going on. At least she didnt pull "I dont want a relationship right now."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter xomel
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ohiofutballa
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she wants to act like a *****, so treat her like one(in certain situations not all)....i wouldnt do things "just to keep her happy" but hey thats just me
to me, keeping a girl and getting a girl are two totally different things. to keep a girl you have to keep her happy. to get a girl its mostly teasing/flirting/being a jerk. If i was looking for an ONS i wouldnt give a shlt about keeping her happy.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Always caught up in your denial. Always with your 'I'm a DJ!!! this can't happen to me bull****'.
You're not what you think you are, sorry. She doesn't want you, not the other way around. You asked her to become exclusive but you don't give a **** about her?
Grow some balls. You were just defeated.
You're not what you think you are, sorry. She doesn't want you, not the other way around. You asked her to become exclusive but you don't give a **** about her?
Grow some balls. You were just defeated.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
ain't that about a *****.
**** keepign other people happy. I'm mroe important than any of the girls I DJ/play. So if I'm not happy, then she gets Nexted...not the other way around.
man i'm tired. peace.
**** keepign other people happy. I'm mroe important than any of the girls I DJ/play. So if I'm not happy, then she gets Nexted...not the other way around.
man i'm tired. peace.