"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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xomel

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This ***** kept hinting that she wanted to be exclusive. So I thought "hmm, the time is soon." The final draw was when she said "you come off as a player to me." Then later I asked her to become exclusive. I could honestly care less, just as long as shes happy. So I asked her this for her sake and she said "No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule" I was like uhhh... okay.... I could honestly care less because im a dj. Like I said as long as shes happy. I dont know what is going on. At least she didnt pull "I dont want a relationship right now."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hot Ice

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"No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule"
EQUALS:
"I dont want a relationship right now. (WITH YOU!!!)"

I think you got played out.
 

xomel

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
"No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule"
EQUALS:
"I dont want a relationship right now. (WITH YOU!!!)"

I think you got played out.

nah i own this *****. I could really care less.
 

ohiofutballa

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she wants to act like a *****, so treat her like one(in certain situations not all)....i wouldnt do things "just to keep her happy" but hey thats just me
 

xomel

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
she wants to act like a *****, so treat her like one(in certain situations not all)....i wouldnt do things "just to keep her happy" but hey thats just me
to me, keeping a girl and getting a girl are two totally different things. to keep a girl you have to keep her happy. to get a girl its mostly teasing/flirting/being a jerk. If i was looking for an ONS i wouldnt give a shlt about keeping her happy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Always caught up in your denial. Always with your 'I'm a DJ!!! this can't happen to me bull****'.

You're not what you think you are, sorry. She doesn't want you, not the other way around. You asked her to become exclusive but you don't give a **** about her? :rolleyes:

Grow some balls. You were just defeated.
 

xomel

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i just got road head and you are calling me defeated? VICTORY! Life isnt a computer game lik.
 

Patrick124

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ain't that about a *****.
**** keepign other people happy. I'm mroe important than any of the girls I DJ/play. So if I'm not happy, then she gets Nexted...not the other way around.
man i'm tired. peace.
 
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