"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xomel

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This ***** kept hinting that she wanted to be exclusive. So I thought "hmm, the time is soon." The final draw was when she said "you come off as a player to me." Then later I asked her to become exclusive. I could honestly care less, just as long as shes happy. So I asked her this for her sake and she said "No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule" I was like uhhh... okay.... I could honestly care less because im a dj. Like I said as long as shes happy. I dont know what is going on. At least she didnt pull "I dont want a relationship right now."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot Ice

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"No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule"
EQUALS:
"I dont want a relationship right now. (WITH YOU!!!)"

I think you got played out.
 

xomel

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
"No, I dont think Ill be able to fit you into my schedule"
EQUALS:
"I dont want a relationship right now. (WITH YOU!!!)"

I think you got played out.

nah i own this *****. I could really care less.
 

ohiofutballa

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she wants to act like a *****, so treat her like one(in certain situations not all)....i wouldnt do things "just to keep her happy" but hey thats just me
 

xomel

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
she wants to act like a *****, so treat her like one(in certain situations not all)....i wouldnt do things "just to keep her happy" but hey thats just me
to me, keeping a girl and getting a girl are two totally different things. to keep a girl you have to keep her happy. to get a girl its mostly teasing/flirting/being a jerk. If i was looking for an ONS i wouldnt give a shlt about keeping her happy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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Always caught up in your denial. Always with your 'I'm a DJ!!! this can't happen to me bull****'.

You're not what you think you are, sorry. She doesn't want you, not the other way around. You asked her to become exclusive but you don't give a **** about her? :rolleyes:

Grow some balls. You were just defeated.
 

xomel

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i just got road head and you are calling me defeated? VICTORY! Life isnt a computer game lik.
 

Patrick124

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ain't that about a *****.
**** keepign other people happy. I'm mroe important than any of the girls I DJ/play. So if I'm not happy, then she gets Nexted...not the other way around.
man i'm tired. peace.
 
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