"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
InsidiousNstinct
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.......That'll shut her up. Man I watch to much Blue collar comedy....hehehe.
On a serious note is there some reason you wouldn't want to be exclusive with her?
Talk to her. You both agreed to not get emotionaly attached and just have physical pleasure. She broke the rules of ****buddies.
Now if you did not talk and set rules and it just happened.. Talk to her about what you want and what she wants. You told us you didn't want to be exclusive because you're only 17. What I read was you believe the responsibilities are too large and you don't want to deal with it. That's a challenge Don Juan. A challenge you're backing down from.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
it is not responsibility holding me back. its just there are so many chicks i wanna be with u know?
i am not ready to settle down at 17.
we agreed to be fb cuz that is what i wanted. i guess she went along hoping it would turn into a more serious relationship.