"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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exclusive?

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what if your fb wants to be exclusive??

i already told her no but she is makin me chose or she is not givin me anymore. i really dont wanna next her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wiesman44

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WHy dont you want to be exclusive ? Are you getting A$$ from other girls as well ? If you're not, why dont you want to become exclusive ? If you are getting a$$ from other girls, you might need to sacrifice her for the pack. Women want to be #1. They either want all of you or none of you. If you can change her mind, gl. IMO, my high school relationships were a great learning experience. MIght wanna try that out.
 

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Tell her ok....."I'll tell everyone we F*ck ALL the time. I'll even tell your parents, and all your girlfriends :) .......That'll shut her up. :p


Man I watch to much Blue collar comedy....hehehe.


On a serious note is there some reason you wouldn't want to be exclusive with her?
 

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thanks for your responses
i dont wanna be exclusive cuz i am only 17. besides i do get other a$$ but this one is pretty much the best

would it be bad if i tell her we'll be exclusive when we're really not?
 

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You won't get away with it.

Talk to her. You both agreed to not get emotionaly attached and just have physical pleasure. She broke the rules of ****buddies.

Now if you did not talk and set rules and it just happened.. Talk to her about what you want and what she wants. You told us you didn't want to be exclusive because you're only 17. What I read was you believe the responsibilities are too large and you don't want to deal with it. That's a challenge Don Juan. A challenge you're backing down from.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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are you saying there is no way i can still be fb with her

it is not responsibility holding me back. its just there are so many chicks i wanna be with u know?
i am not ready to settle down at 17.

we agreed to be fb cuz that is what i wanted. i guess she went along hoping it would turn into a more serious relationship.
 

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dude, I'm sure she'll stop holding back and doing freakier **** once your exclusive. Least thats what happened to me. And hey, if it doesnt work out, dump her and go for your other chix. You have nothing to lose.
 

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but see i dont know if i can. last night i met this other chick that i really wanna get with and there is also the other one with bf that i wanna get with..

i got too much testosterone damnit!
 
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