Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
exclusive?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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.......That'll shut her up. Man I watch to much Blue collar comedy....hehehe.
On a serious note is there some reason you wouldn't want to be exclusive with her?
Talk to her. You both agreed to not get emotionaly attached and just have physical pleasure. She broke the rules of ****buddies.
Now if you did not talk and set rules and it just happened.. Talk to her about what you want and what she wants. You told us you didn't want to be exclusive because you're only 17. What I read was you believe the responsibilities are too large and you don't want to deal with it. That's a challenge Don Juan. A challenge you're backing down from.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
it is not responsibility holding me back. its just there are so many chicks i wanna be with u know?
i am not ready to settle down at 17.
we agreed to be fb cuz that is what i wanted. i guess she went along hoping it would turn into a more serious relationship.