"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Excercises/Stretchers to straighten your back

Kas

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Im 17, years of slouching on my chair at school has left me with a bit of a curve in my back.

Any excercises or stretches I can do ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skilla_Staz

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You can start by standing up straight.
 

grr

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Do squats (preferrable) or deadlift. They'll make your core hard as a rock. Right now its jelly and that's what's killing your posture, you're like a pair of top-heavy nuknchucks instead of a solid cylinder.
 

wayword

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Go to a chiropractor
Lay on your back on a ball
Hang from a bar, with your hands or upside-down with gravity-boots
Wherever your spine is bulging out, workout the muscles on the bulging side

Straightening your posture takes time because it involves both physically changing your body as well as mental bad habits. So, it's not something that will happen overnight - so you have to give it a lot of time. Taken me years, to be honest, and I'm still not where I wanna be (although somewhat close). But the pay-off is good and worth it. Nothing spells a loser like a slouch.
 
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