Examples of triggering her emotions when you've just met her?

[ApocalypticBroccoli]

Hi, I'm looking for examples of "triggering her emotions" in situations where you've just met someone.

I can do this pretty successfully in situations where I'm already intimate with a woman... by that point I know what gets her worked up, how to get under her skin, how to piss her off just the right amount but not too much. At that point we've already shared an intense emotional experience (sex) and I can get away with saying almost anything. Pretty different situation when you've just met her.

Anybody want to recount any past experiences doing this? I feel like it's the kind of thing where I'd benefit more from seeing a bunch of examples than from an explanation.

 

[Bingo-Player]

You can't really trigger someones emotions without knowing anything about them , its a play you make after you know a bit about her

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You'd probably do better to be interesting, fun and sexual with her rather than trying to play psychologist.

 

[The Duke]

I do this often with new girls and its highly effective. Its definitely why I always score 2nd dates and 3rd dates. If she is willing to meet me once, she will want to go out with me again. I've got the results to back that up.

It first starts with her feeling safe and comfortable with you. You will need to show some vulnerability and explain what makes you tick in order to get her to open up and express herelf. She wants to know who you are first and telling stories about how you became who you are is a good way to do it.

I used to tell a story about a neighbor kid that used to help me on my cars. He showed an interest and I saw some talent in him, so I taught him things he didn't know and we formed a great friendship that still exists 20years later. I also share things that this kid taught me that meant a lot to me.

I share many human interest stories about life and the experiences I've had. I share the funny parts, times I've showed compassion towards others, and the lessons learned. Your stories need to show you as the hero and have a happy ending.

Be Vulnerable but confident in who you are. Be authentic.

Never overshare, always maintain some mystery.

Convey you are a man with options without telling her. She wants to know that you understand women and have experience but she doesn't want to know you are a man wh0re or player or any version of those. There's really only one way to get experience and really understand women and thats to date a lot of them but women want to have their cake and eat it too so just remain vague.

Keeping things fun, light, flirty, and playful always plays into your favor.

Conveying that you are a man that knows what he wants and goes out and gets it is hot to women. Whether its hobbies, community work, job, dating, etc. It tells her this man is confident and is true to what he is saying.

In order for a man to pull this off he needs to have good awareness and good listening skills. You have to be able to read people quickly.

I've never wanted someone to like me because of my looks, money, or status. I'm not some great looking guy. I'm slightly above average. I have plenty of money but most never know unless they know me well. I don't lead with my wallet. I certainly don't brag about my status althought I have some of that. I do have plenty of confidence and authenticity.

Its my ability to connect one on one by creating an emotional connection where a girl can feel close and safe that carries the day for me.

 

[The Duke]

You'd probably do better to be interesting, fun and sexual with her rather than trying to play psychologist.

Its not about playing psychologist, its about making a person feel comfortable enough that they want to tell you more. When a person does this they feel more connected. This is what draws women in and gives you a leg up on the rest of the men.

You are big into fitness and having six pack abs. Thats how you generate visual attraction. I prefer to create mental attraction thru the mind, not thru the eyes.