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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Examples of jealousy ploys to include during a date?

pete101

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Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mantis Toboggan

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?

i.e. maybe i've given the impression i dont have options when i do but am not acting like that, im generally quite nervous and shake my legs a lot (nervous energy) so give off impression that i have no options though i have 2-3.
 

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pete101 said:
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?
That doesn't really change anything I said, does it?

It's still a cheap trick. Either a girl likes you or she doesn't. It's not like there's one thing you can say that's going to change her perception of you and make her wet.

So you made a mistake. I've made plenty. Learn from it and move forward. If you have another date with this girl, forget your past mistake, just make this a better date.

Seems like you're more focused on one stupid mistake than the fundamentals (escalation, sexuality, etc).
 

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
Don't. She'll get tired of that sort of game and she'll punish you severely for doing it.

Remember that women do this to each other starting from an early age and are 100x better at it than you are.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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