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Examples of jealousy ploys to include during a date?

pete101

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Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?

i.e. maybe i've given the impression i dont have options when i do but am not acting like that, im generally quite nervous and shake my legs a lot (nervous energy) so give off impression that i have no options though i have 2-3.
 

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pete101 said:
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?
That doesn't really change anything I said, does it?

It's still a cheap trick. Either a girl likes you or she doesn't. It's not like there's one thing you can say that's going to change her perception of you and make her wet.

So you made a mistake. I've made plenty. Learn from it and move forward. If you have another date with this girl, forget your past mistake, just make this a better date.

Seems like you're more focused on one stupid mistake than the fundamentals (escalation, sexuality, etc).
 

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
Don't. She'll get tired of that sort of game and she'll punish you severely for doing it.

Remember that women do this to each other starting from an early age and are 100x better at it than you are.
 

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