"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Examples of jealousy ploys to include during a date?

pete101

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Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mantis Toboggan

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
If you have to use tricks like this to build a woman's emotions, then you're already operating from a position of weakness.

I have options, therefor I act like a man who has options. There's no need for jealousy ploys.
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?

i.e. maybe i've given the impression i dont have options when i do but am not acting like that, im generally quite nervous and shake my legs a lot (nervous energy) so give off impression that i have no options though i have 2-3.
 

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pete101 said:
what if i've made a mistake during the date and need to use it as a tactic to bring the IL back up?
That doesn't really change anything I said, does it?

It's still a cheap trick. Either a girl likes you or she doesn't. It's not like there's one thing you can say that's going to change her perception of you and make her wet.

So you made a mistake. I've made plenty. Learn from it and move forward. If you have another date with this girl, forget your past mistake, just make this a better date.

Seems like you're more focused on one stupid mistake than the fundamentals (escalation, sexuality, etc).
 

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pete101 said:
Can you guys list examples of jealousy ploys during a date to get her emotions up?
Don't. She'll get tired of that sort of game and she'll punish you severely for doing it.

Remember that women do this to each other starting from an early age and are 100x better at it than you are.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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