"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Examples of High IL but playing Hard to Get

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What are some examples you've seen of women with true high interest, but who still play hard to get? Or does high IL always = easy to get?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Very good question indeed, but one I wouldn't be able to answer.

I've had delayed responses to txt messages and postponed dates from girls with high IL, but I've also had these from girls with low IL.

I think the best way to tell is if you leave her to make contact. If she's interested she will (eventually), if not she won't.
 
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In my experience, if she really likes you,
she will make it easy to approach and contact her. However, later on, once a relationship is established, she may play hard to get at times.
 
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