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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Examples of High IL but playing Hard to Get

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What are some examples you've seen of women with true high interest, but who still play hard to get? Or does high IL always = easy to get?
 

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Very good question indeed, but one I wouldn't be able to answer.

I've had delayed responses to txt messages and postponed dates from girls with high IL, but I've also had these from girls with low IL.

I think the best way to tell is if you leave her to make contact. If she's interested she will (eventually), if not she won't.
 
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In my experience, if she really likes you,
she will make it easy to approach and contact her. However, later on, once a relationship is established, she may play hard to get at times.
 
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