"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am out of town and went to a bar, was there by myself drinking beer when a drunk fellow came up and talked to me... he introduced me to her daughter. She turned around and looked at me and said "im his daughter." I said "what's your name?" she told me her name and I told her mine, I said nice to meet you smiled and shook her hand. After that nothing much happened and she turned around and didn't so much as face me for the rest of the night. Now I'm new to hitting on strangers and I wouldn't even call this hitting on a stranger since she was introduced to me... but my thought was this girl had very little interest in me.

What should I have done in this situation? Would you say I'm correct, the girl had little interest in me if she didn't say anything afterward and just turned back around? Or should I have just pushed it and got in on her conversation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude, her DAD was there!!! what the f*** could you have done? Get her drunk? Jesus! What are you doing, going to random family reunions?
 
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engage her in a conversation, what she's up to tonight, how cool it is she goes out with her dad, where she's from, what she does, what shes drinking (don't buy her a drink), comment on her necklace, shoes, hair, see if she likes dancing, wants to go outside for a cigarette....

Build up some interest, if you don't talk, she won't have interest. You need to take the lead.

When I'm out at the bars and talking to women, always try to find a connection, then when you do, laugh and put your hand on their shoulder and rub their back in approval. Then go from there....
 
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