Example

[rrrrr]

I am out of town and went to a bar, was there by myself drinking beer when a drunk fellow came up and talked to me... he introduced me to her daughter. She turned around and looked at me and said "im his daughter." I said "what's your name?" she told me her name and I told her mine, I said nice to meet you smiled and shook her hand. After that nothing much happened and she turned around and didn't so much as face me for the rest of the night. Now I'm new to hitting on strangers and I wouldn't even call this hitting on a stranger since she was introduced to me... but my thought was this girl had very little interest in me.

What should I have done in this situation? Would you say I'm correct, the girl had little interest in me if she didn't say anything afterward and just turned back around? Or should I have just pushed it and got in on her conversation.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

Dude, her DAD was there!!! what the f*** could you have done? Get her drunk? Jesus! What are you doing, going to random family reunions?

 

[rocky_mtn]

engage her in a conversation, what she's up to tonight, how cool it is she goes out with her dad, where she's from, what she does, what shes drinking (don't buy her a drink), comment on her necklace, shoes, hair, see if she likes dancing, wants to go outside for a cigarette....

Build up some interest, if you don't talk, she won't have interest. You need to take the lead.

When I'm out at the bars and talking to women, always try to find a connection, then when you do, laugh and put your hand on their shoulder and rub their back in approval. Then go from there....