greatsnake
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why does my ex seem so bitter if she Did the breaking up? Lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
greatsnake
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Lol i wouldn't care after breaking up with her
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Depends on circumstances.
Case 1: If you're unaffected by it, move on quickly and improve yourself they might regret their decision, that's bitter.
Case 2: If they feel you made them unhappy and especially if she was in that state for a while before breaking up, she might be bitter because of the time lost chasing an unsatisfying relationship with you.
There is a male equivalent to case 1, think about the man that ends it with a girl they're not satisfied with and then she becomes super attractive, that regret is bitter. In case 2 think of a man who breaks it off with a BPD woman, they're bitter because of all the sh!t she did and the time and effort wasted on her.
You probably know which case it might be. I'm not saying either are rational, they're not but humans don't always act rationally. It happens and it explains what you're wondering about. In short she was unsatisfied and thus broke it off, she's not entirely over you and has regret of some form. Note that not being "over you" does not imply she wants to get back together in case 2, it just means you're on her mind still (in a negative sense).
Case 1: If you're unaffected by it, move on quickly and improve yourself they might regret their decision, that's bitter.
Case 2: If they feel you made them unhappy and especially if she was in that state for a while before breaking up, she might be bitter because of the time lost chasing an unsatisfying relationship with you.
There is a male equivalent to case 1, think about the man that ends it with a girl they're not satisfied with and then she becomes super attractive, that regret is bitter. In case 2 think of a man who breaks it off with a BPD woman, they're bitter because of all the sh!t she did and the time and effort wasted on her.
You probably know which case it might be. I'm not saying either are rational, they're not but humans don't always act rationally. It happens and it explains what you're wondering about. In short she was unsatisfied and thus broke it off, she's not entirely over you and has regret of some form. Note that not being "over you" does not imply she wants to get back together in case 2, it just means you're on her mind still (in a negative sense).
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
With literally no backstory, the options are endless.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
women make stupid mistakes, then they pay.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It's only a worry when your ex is indifferent.
If they r bitter, sad or angry then you made your mark. A tattoo on their soul that would take years and years to be rid off.
Congratulations!
