"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex talks ****

Swede54

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Well my ex gf is still sayign ****a bout me, its been abiout 3 months since i stopped talking to her completely. (shes immature and AW). So anyway today i hear from a mutual friend that shes telling them i have a small penis now, about as immature as i get. And just FYI i dont have a small penis by any standards, its jsut well immaturity at its best. I emailed her and told her to kindly stop talking about me as i do not talk about her. God i ****ing hate this crap.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DrSoSuave

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Get new friends, this will eat you up. The only reason why she keeps on telling them about you is that they ask for it.
 

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Just tell them she has the looses pu$$y.... start serving up a bit of her own medicine... tho while you do it, I'd suggest you keep it of the cuff and casual...

She's obviously using you as a pattern or routine....
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Just tell them she has the looses pu$$y.... start serving up a bit of her own medicine... tho while you do it, I'd suggest you keep it of the cuff and casual...

She's obviously using you as a pattern or routine....
what do you mean by pattern or routine?
 

Desdinova

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It's all in how you take it. If you hear a rumor that she probably started spreading, laugh about it. Also, don't be afraid to start your own rumors. It's funny how they come back to you all fvcked up.

I knew a chick who loved spreading rumors. She was a pain in the ass, but the rumors were funny. Apparently we dated for months and had sex. However, I never fvcked her in the three days we dated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You've done the worst thing possible by letting her know it annoys you... it's just going to be more incentive for her to continue.

Hold your head, keep your cool.
 

SamePendo

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You shouldn't have time for this ****. Get busy. Real busy.
 

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don't give it to much attention, if someone asks you anything about it, simply put it to maturity and if she has the need to say such things to make herself feel better, then the more to her if she is that supervisial? ( spl is totally wrong) and simply say, it's not worth talking about it, considdering that people that talk about gossip are either not that really bright, afraid to check it out themselves or have totally nothing else to do and fill in some fake importance to make themselve feel better..

never ever fails.. but don't push it, or go around to tell it...
 
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