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I do agree with you. I think if I call and give her a piece of my mind about how ridiculously immature she is being it will play right into the narrative that is she trying to create of me being some monster. She was the "victim" with her previous exes she had told me about too so I suppose this should not come as some shock to me. Just disappointing that we c
100% spot on. They dont care at this point. We have been conditioned to believe love is rainbows and butterflies. It is a power game just as in nature. Like ssid above she hates you because you beat her to the kick.
She can and will move on rather easily.

Men in this age need to be modern but think like vikings. When its the deal breaker then its a next. If they exit first its
"Ok"
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100% spot on. They dont care at this point. We have been conditioned to believe love is rainbows and butterflies. It is a power game just as in nature. Like ssid above she hates you because you beat her to the kick.
She can and will move on rather easily.

Men in this age need to be modern but think like vikings. When its the deal breaker then its a next. If they exit first its
"Ok"
See ya
It is amazing how quickly they can shift gears and be moved on. One day they are asking you to please reconsider and give the relationship a chance, the next week they have decided to burn it all to the ground and make you look like the world's biggest @sshole. I suppose it is easy though when her texting/coffee buddy can become her full-time buddy now and listen to her sob story of how terrible I am.

On to the next.
 

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Why not get a restraining order and ask your buddies to help out? That way you can start a conversation with them to let them know what really went down lol
 

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Can you sue her for defamation Of character
No - I’m not even sure of what was said. I suppose if I find out that she is claiming I physically abused her or something equally outrageous that might change. But otherwise that is a rabbit hole I wouldn’t even think of going down. Just going to stay in No Contact and move forward with my life.
 

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One day they are asking you to please reconsider and give the relationship a chance, the next week they have decided to burn it all to the ground and make you look like the world's biggest @sshole.
From my experience and hearing others, sometimes it's the girls that wanna do the breaking up and save face. They don't really care about you or the relationship but they do care about getting back together so they can have the control of when to break up on their terms. She didn't get her way so now she's bitter and on a war rampage. Yeah it's messed up.

Crisis averted.
 
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