"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex Poisoning the Well Against You

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Barrister

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Can you sue her for defamation Of character
No - I’m not even sure of what was said. I suppose if I find out that she is claiming I physically abused her or something equally outrageous that might change. But otherwise that is a rabbit hole I wouldn’t even think of going down. Just going to stay in No Contact and move forward with my life.
 

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One day they are asking you to please reconsider and give the relationship a chance, the next week they have decided to burn it all to the ground and make you look like the world's biggest @sshole.
From my experience and hearing others, sometimes it's the girls that wanna do the breaking up and save face. They don't really care about you or the relationship but they do care about getting back together so they can have the control of when to break up on their terms. She didn't get her way so now she's bitter and on a war rampage. Yeah it's messed up.

Crisis averted.
 
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