Georgepithyou
Banned
Can you sue her for defamation Of character
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ex Poisoning the Well Against You
- Thread starter Barrister
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Barrister
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No - I’m not even sure of what was said. I suppose if I find out that she is claiming I physically abused her or something equally outrageous that might change. But otherwise that is a rabbit hole I wouldn’t even think of going down. Just going to stay in No Contact and move forward with my life.
From my experience and hearing others, sometimes it's the girls that wanna do the breaking up and save face. They don't really care about you or the relationship but they do care about getting back together so they can have the control of when to break up on their terms. She didn't get her way so now she's bitter and on a war rampage. Yeah it's messed up.
Crisis averted.