"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ex-oneitus's Bday is coming up

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Originally posted by Kaine
This is another example of typical AFC behaviour. He's paralysed by analysis over a "sweet girl" who realistically only dated one month in a non exclusive dating where she finally LJBFs him.

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Exactly
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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*Blocks Kaine's backhand*

That was not AFC - she never LJBF me. It just ended, b/c of the distance (2 hours) and probably b/c she found someone else. At the time, I didn't even see it coming from her.. but alas you live, learn, and move on.

Today is her bday. AHHHH! must decide... what... to do.....

To be a dyck/jerk and either raise her IL or it might backfire and I risk burning a bridge for good.... or to be a good guy and pander to her ego... ahhhh!!!
 
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Then it ended after I sent her an email telling her I want to hang out more(when she started flaking on my date offers) and she responded with that she doesnt want to get into anything right now.. which basically meant to me is that she doesnt want a relationship with "me."
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Strange I thought you knew how to read ********.

I was going to say rejection, but LJBF sounded less painful.

Guys

If a women flakes on you
Tells you she's not ready for "anything right now"
Then comes back and gives you intermittent attention YET does not put out. You have LJBFed.

Kaine
 
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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
If you don't wanna get back with her, then just call her and wish her a happy birthday as you would to a friend. Don't think much of it man.
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EXACTLY. The fact that you had to come here and ask us do you call your EX on her BDay tells me you still have feelings for her.

Dont' be a **** and not call just to prove apoint...expically to yourself. That's just dumb.

You can easily call and say happy B-Day and talk for a sec, tell her you will talk to her later and leave.

Did this really deserve it's own post?
 
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