“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ex-oneitus's Bday is coming up

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Originally posted by Kaine
This is another example of typical AFC behaviour. He's paralysed by analysis over a "sweet girl" who realistically only dated one month in a non exclusive dating where she finally LJBFs him.

Exactly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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*Blocks Kaine's backhand*

That was not AFC - she never LJBF me. It just ended, b/c of the distance (2 hours) and probably b/c she found someone else. At the time, I didn't even see it coming from her.. but alas you live, learn, and move on.

Today is her bday. AHHHH! must decide... what... to do.....

To be a dyck/jerk and either raise her IL or it might backfire and I risk burning a bridge for good.... or to be a good guy and pander to her ego... ahhhh!!!
 

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Then it ended after I sent her an email telling her I want to hang out more(when she started flaking on my date offers) and she responded with that she doesnt want to get into anything right now.. which basically meant to me is that she doesnt want a relationship with "me."
Strange I thought you knew how to read ********.

I was going to say rejection, but LJBF sounded less painful.

Guys

If a women flakes on you
Tells you she's not ready for "anything right now"
Then comes back and gives you intermittent attention YET does not put out. You have LJBFed.

Kaine
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
If you don't wanna get back with her, then just call her and wish her a happy birthday as you would to a friend. Don't think much of it man.
EXACTLY. The fact that you had to come here and ask us do you call your EX on her BDay tells me you still have feelings for her.

Dont' be a **** and not call just to prove apoint...expically to yourself. That's just dumb.

You can easily call and say happy B-Day and talk for a sec, tell her you will talk to her later and leave.

Did this really deserve it's own post?
 
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